Hiya,
Just the question above really. Nina is a cavapoo and I have heard they’re prone to separation anxiety. Right now, she’s only 13 weeks. It’s true that she freaks out if I leave the room for a second, but I think that’s just because she’s a tiny baby. Currently, she sleeps in her crate, in my room. However, I’d rather she didn’t sleep in my room forever, especially because I tend to wake up to go to the loo in the night, and every time I do, she wakes up and wants to go. Last night, I deprived myself of water for several hours before bed, and we both slept through - but I’d rather not be perpetually thirsty. And I also don’t want to train night time waking into Nina.
Also, I’d rather she grew into a confident adult dog who could be left for short periods, and had the resources to deal with that, so I guess my second question is when to start building up her alone time? She’s already fine as long as she’s the one who’s wandered off, and she is free to come back whenever she wants. And also, I’ve been feeding the rabbits while she’s distracted with dinner and she’s fine with that too - until she finishes, looks for me, and meets the stair gate. Then she is not.
Anyway, I just googled when to move puppy out of your room, and the first posts all said, “within the first week”. But she is so little! That can’t be right, is it? She would cry all night, I think. I was thinking of an age in months… So, given that, I don’t particularly want to trust Google on the more general alone time question either.
What do people here do? I’ve seen the advice for gradually moving the crate to the door. Does this work, in your experience? And when should I start? Should I really have started already?
Just the question above really. Nina is a cavapoo and I have heard they’re prone to separation anxiety. Right now, she’s only 13 weeks. It’s true that she freaks out if I leave the room for a second, but I think that’s just because she’s a tiny baby. Currently, she sleeps in her crate, in my room. However, I’d rather she didn’t sleep in my room forever, especially because I tend to wake up to go to the loo in the night, and every time I do, she wakes up and wants to go. Last night, I deprived myself of water for several hours before bed, and we both slept through - but I’d rather not be perpetually thirsty. And I also don’t want to train night time waking into Nina.
Also, I’d rather she grew into a confident adult dog who could be left for short periods, and had the resources to deal with that, so I guess my second question is when to start building up her alone time? She’s already fine as long as she’s the one who’s wandered off, and she is free to come back whenever she wants. And also, I’ve been feeding the rabbits while she’s distracted with dinner and she’s fine with that too - until she finishes, looks for me, and meets the stair gate. Then she is not.
Anyway, I just googled when to move puppy out of your room, and the first posts all said, “within the first week”. But she is so little! That can’t be right, is it? She would cry all night, I think. I was thinking of an age in months… So, given that, I don’t particularly want to trust Google on the more general alone time question either.
What do people here do? I’ve seen the advice for gradually moving the crate to the door. Does this work, in your experience? And when should I start? Should I really have started already?