Hi everyone,
My GF and I choose to adopt a new mate. I don't wanna spend time telling the full story but we ended up with a Golden Retriever bought in an intensive mating farm. I don't know the proper word in english. Please consider not bashing us, we didn't bought from here direcly, but that's not the topic anyway. If you REALLY want the full story, I will tell, but it's not the topic as I just said
So, our new dog is called 13, it sounds better in french, trust me. He's a Golden Retriever, almost 9 months old, he's been vaccinated and saw the vet at his previous place so I bet he's healthy, hopefully.
Here is my problem :
We took him from his previous place, we saw him play with another Golden, he was full of energy, playfull and stuff but avoiding humans (edit, i think it might be important), we came back home by car, he was calm, and when we arrived, he didn't move so we had to carry him to our home. Once home, he walked behind the sofa and hid here for hours so we fed him right here. He drank, he ate some of his food and that's all.
We decided to move his food and water to the permanent place in the kitchen so we took him to show him where it is, he ate his meal and drank some water. He was walking a bit around, avoiding us, so we gave him some space.
Then, we thought it was a good time for a walk so we had to carry him outside since he didn't want to move (He looked scared, ears behind and tail between his legs) and once outside... well, he still didn't move. He stood still for 15min, then he sat, looked at me for a bit, not moving I saw an opportunity to brush him because he sheds alot as expected for a golden during those times.
We decided, after 1h, to carry him back home and go to sleep. I think he wandered a bit when the lights were off because we heard some noises. He peed and shat during the night, we kinda expected that and ofc we didn't blame him so I just cleaned all of this.
Now it's the morning, he's laying on the floor, looking at me, next to the sofa and when I come close, he puts his ears behind and just doesn't move. I can pat his head, it seems he doesn't mind but I don't think he's enjoying it eigher.
So yeah, short story long : I'm wondering if it's normal and if I have anything to do.
My GF told me that's normal he's traumatized and scared. And I'm more affraid that he might be sick even if he looks healthy (no fever, he doesn't cough, puke or anything.. He's not even whining or barking, he doesn't lick any part of his body or scratch)
Since there might be experts on this forum, or people that adopted a dog in a similar state, I'm looking for experiences and advices. I know, I could take him to the vet but I don't want to traumatize him more because, well, I'm not an expert but I don't think scared dogs love to be carried around everywhere like a human baby + car rides + smelling the fear pheromones at the vet + meeting another stranger.
Thx for reading
My GF and I choose to adopt a new mate. I don't wanna spend time telling the full story but we ended up with a Golden Retriever bought in an intensive mating farm. I don't know the proper word in english. Please consider not bashing us, we didn't bought from here direcly, but that's not the topic anyway. If you REALLY want the full story, I will tell, but it's not the topic as I just said
So, our new dog is called 13, it sounds better in french, trust me. He's a Golden Retriever, almost 9 months old, he's been vaccinated and saw the vet at his previous place so I bet he's healthy, hopefully.
Here is my problem :
We took him from his previous place, we saw him play with another Golden, he was full of energy, playfull and stuff but avoiding humans (edit, i think it might be important), we came back home by car, he was calm, and when we arrived, he didn't move so we had to carry him to our home. Once home, he walked behind the sofa and hid here for hours so we fed him right here. He drank, he ate some of his food and that's all.
We decided to move his food and water to the permanent place in the kitchen so we took him to show him where it is, he ate his meal and drank some water. He was walking a bit around, avoiding us, so we gave him some space.
Then, we thought it was a good time for a walk so we had to carry him outside since he didn't want to move (He looked scared, ears behind and tail between his legs) and once outside... well, he still didn't move. He stood still for 15min, then he sat, looked at me for a bit, not moving I saw an opportunity to brush him because he sheds alot as expected for a golden during those times.
We decided, after 1h, to carry him back home and go to sleep. I think he wandered a bit when the lights were off because we heard some noises. He peed and shat during the night, we kinda expected that and ofc we didn't blame him so I just cleaned all of this.
Now it's the morning, he's laying on the floor, looking at me, next to the sofa and when I come close, he puts his ears behind and just doesn't move. I can pat his head, it seems he doesn't mind but I don't think he's enjoying it eigher.
So yeah, short story long : I'm wondering if it's normal and if I have anything to do.
My GF told me that's normal he's traumatized and scared. And I'm more affraid that he might be sick even if he looks healthy (no fever, he doesn't cough, puke or anything.. He's not even whining or barking, he doesn't lick any part of his body or scratch)
Since there might be experts on this forum, or people that adopted a dog in a similar state, I'm looking for experiences and advices. I know, I could take him to the vet but I don't want to traumatize him more because, well, I'm not an expert but I don't think scared dogs love to be carried around everywhere like a human baby + car rides + smelling the fear pheromones at the vet + meeting another stranger.
Thx for reading