Hello,
I have been with my significant other for 1 year, he has 4 cats and I have 1 dog. They all get along with each other time to time, my dog has never hurt or attacked the cats. The oldest cat has attacked my dog many times and I get blamed for it as if it is my fault the cat scratched my dog, gave him scars and just blood everywhere. My significant other also babies the cat and makes excuses for the cat, my significant other will snuggle, kiss and rub the cat but not me. I am not to move the cat when he is on the bed which is practicaly 24/7. I do understand the cat was around before me and is getting older, as well as my dog, but my significant other should do some adjustments so I feel welcomed and loved. My significant other does not give my dog attention and when my dog wants to get up on bed with us my significant other freaks out and won't let him. It is not fair to me or my dog. I'm starting to get annoyed and mad about this. My significant other does not know I feel this way. Help!
I have been with my significant other for 1 year, he has 4 cats and I have 1 dog. They all get along with each other time to time, my dog has never hurt or attacked the cats. The oldest cat has attacked my dog many times and I get blamed for it as if it is my fault the cat scratched my dog, gave him scars and just blood everywhere. My significant other also babies the cat and makes excuses for the cat, my significant other will snuggle, kiss and rub the cat but not me. I am not to move the cat when he is on the bed which is practicaly 24/7. I do understand the cat was around before me and is getting older, as well as my dog, but my significant other should do some adjustments so I feel welcomed and loved. My significant other does not give my dog attention and when my dog wants to get up on bed with us my significant other freaks out and won't let him. It is not fair to me or my dog. I'm starting to get annoyed and mad about this. My significant other does not know I feel this way. Help!
