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I`m sorry for your loss. What you are feeling is a normal response. It will pass.
Just remind yourself that we truly can`t control everything and life has its own plans. If something is intended, it will happen and you can`t do much about it. It`s scary but very liberating at the same time. You know, bricks fall on people`s head. The other day I heard a story about a diver who was sucked into a .. umm.. fire-department helicopter while it was loading up water from sea to extinguish a wildfire in jungle. They found a divers burnt body with diving mask on against a burnt tree in the jungle later.
Sorry, gruesome but also totally absurd. Point is that we actually don`t control much in life and if some weird stuff is going to happen, it probably will. All we can really do is trust life, hope for the best and try to relax.
Hugs.
Just remind yourself that we truly can`t control everything and life has its own plans. If something is intended, it will happen and you can`t do much about it. It`s scary but very liberating at the same time. You know, bricks fall on people`s head. The other day I heard a story about a diver who was sucked into a .. umm.. fire-department helicopter while it was loading up water from sea to extinguish a wildfire in jungle. They found a divers burnt body with diving mask on against a burnt tree in the jungle later.
Sorry, gruesome but also totally absurd. Point is that we actually don`t control much in life and if some weird stuff is going to happen, it probably will. All we can really do is trust life, hope for the best and try to relax.
Hugs.
