If you have the crate in the kitchen area, she's likely just to go in there to feel secure... If you leave the door open, she can go out in the kitchen to potty on the paper...
When you leave, don't look at her, don't touch her, don't speak to her... just go... I know... it's heart breaking, but it's best for you both...
My poodle, Storm, was looking at me today, when I had to take a quick trip to my daughters... I made the mistake of saying: 'No, you can't come'... and he ran straight out the door... He only understood the word 'come'... We both walked back inside... I gave him a toy, and then left again with no problems...
When you leave, don't look at her, don't touch her, don't speak to her... just go... I know... it's heart breaking, but it's best for you both...
My poodle, Storm, was looking at me today, when I had to take a quick trip to my daughters... I made the mistake of saying: 'No, you can't come'... and he ran straight out the door... He only understood the word 'come'... We both walked back inside... I gave him a toy, and then left again with no problems...