I am sorry, Nicole, that sounds really uncomfortable and stressful, too! I would be totally unhappy about having someone's dog barking and growling at me, esp in my own home!! Scary, too.
You could try counterconditioning this dog. The goal? Your voice/appearance predicts good, happy, safe predictable things!!!
Here"s how:
Maybe, when you first start moving around in your room, you could call the dog's name and have some very small yummy treats to toss to the dog. Use only highest value food that smells great like: small bits of meat, or chicken, or cheese, or liver, etc. No dry treats at this point. Eventually you can use less yummy food or kibble.
So call his name, and at a large distance toss him the treats. Tons of small bites are better than a few big ones in my opinion. Small like pea size.
Do not make eye contact with him. Don't stand facing him, but stand to the side if possible so he doesn't view you as a threat. Keep your body loose, relaxed and not tense. Hands down at your sides loosely,palms open, so he can see that you don't have a leash or anything to hit him with. Don't even talk, just let his brain re-path to think...Hhmm Nicole is awake, yummy treats will be coming to me soon!!"
If you have a baby gate to put in between you as you do this, even better!
Maybe do the same when the guys are there so he learns that you are very predictable and safe. So if you say "Hi doggie" say it in the same tone, same words each time. Pick a phrase or words that you can say happily and naturally.
If fear, stress or anxiety= aggression, then being predictable/safe is a great way to reduce his stress, and hence lessen the aggressive behavior.
You are so wise to want to be kind to this dog and help him to not use aggression to solve his problems! Good for you!! Thank you.
Good luck, and please keep us updated, ok?
You could try counterconditioning this dog. The goal? Your voice/appearance predicts good, happy, safe predictable things!!!
Here"s how:
Maybe, when you first start moving around in your room, you could call the dog's name and have some very small yummy treats to toss to the dog. Use only highest value food that smells great like: small bits of meat, or chicken, or cheese, or liver, etc. No dry treats at this point. Eventually you can use less yummy food or kibble.
So call his name, and at a large distance toss him the treats. Tons of small bites are better than a few big ones in my opinion. Small like pea size.
Do not make eye contact with him. Don't stand facing him, but stand to the side if possible so he doesn't view you as a threat. Keep your body loose, relaxed and not tense. Hands down at your sides loosely,palms open, so he can see that you don't have a leash or anything to hit him with. Don't even talk, just let his brain re-path to think...Hhmm Nicole is awake, yummy treats will be coming to me soon!!"
If you have a baby gate to put in between you as you do this, even better!
Maybe do the same when the guys are there so he learns that you are very predictable and safe. So if you say "Hi doggie" say it in the same tone, same words each time. Pick a phrase or words that you can say happily and naturally.
If fear, stress or anxiety= aggression, then being predictable/safe is a great way to reduce his stress, and hence lessen the aggressive behavior.
You are so wise to want to be kind to this dog and help him to not use aggression to solve his problems! Good for you!! Thank you.
Good luck, and please keep us updated, ok?