Greetings all,
I'm new here and joined because I need some advice and perspective.
Here's the issue. Our 1 year old rescue is starting to bite our dog walker and is generally nervous and fearful of people (children included) other than myself and my husband. At this point she hasn't been able to leash him up but made great progress with playing with him in the back yard over a months time. He would let her pet him and play ball. He had comfortable body language. But something changed in the last few days and now he is uncool with her. Why and what do we do?
Is there a way to train him out of this behavior?
Is this just the dog that he is and I have to accept that he will not change?
Is this a display of how he will act toward children that are new additions to our family?
The things we know:
-1 year old
-Pung-San/Jindo mix
-First owner gave him back to the breeder and the breeder lost track of him
-He was found on the street. Probably on the street for over a month or more during the age of 7-9 months old.
-Initially he was very fearful when he moved in with us but became comfortable within a week. From pacing around and no touching and then getting better by learning play and training with commands. Finally, now he knows his name, can do sit, stay, come (touch).
-We did additional training with a dog trainer for about a month
-He is very independent
-House broken
-super affectionate and cuddly with us
-He is reasonably comfortable with people at a sidewalk cafe (I think because we are with him)
-he is happy for anyone to walk him once you pass off the leash
-His problem behavior seems to revolve around our house exclusively, the back yard. Anywhere that you can assume he has deemed "his turf"
-The dog walker was making progress with him. Playing in the yard, petting, no growling or biting...but then we installed a doggy door. We wonder if he feels like the backyard is now more "His turf" . than is was before? That is the only thing that changed since the biting started with the dog walker.
-plays with mouth on our arms very gently with no pressure though we have deterred this for the last few weeks and will continue to do so even though it seems affectionate.
-From a scale of 1 being the gentlest bite to 10 being one that draws blood, I would say the bites on the dog walker are on a 4-5. I know this because we have video of him doing it and it's what the dog walker felt. Also, his body posture and tail position all show that he is uncomfortable and in a nervous stance so it's clear that these bites are different from his mouthy, playful biting which is always very gentle.
-does NOT bark almost ever unless he feels threatened. I think I have heard him bark 4 times since we have had him
-he growls if threatened or uncomfortable but sometimes in play mode. In this latest instance, he air bit first, then soft bit and when told NO, he growled.
-he occasionally growls at the dog park if he finds a play friend that is a good wrestling parter and it sounds like play sounds rather than warning growling.
-he sometimes get outnumbered at the dog park and become the submissive dog. This can rise to him barring his teeth if he is cornered or pig-piled by dominant dogs. Would you define this as "fear- aggression?"
Other issues in the past:
-In the 3rd week of his life with us he soft nipped at my mom when she was visiting. A toy was involved and we were inside the house.
-a second incident happened in the backyard with a toy too when my mom tried to play with him, throwing a toy his way and he rushed the toy and barked loudly at her. It was confusing because his body posture was "play" (belly on the ground, front legs splayed in front of him and hind legs bent under him.) . But the fact that he barked was alarming. Maybe it was as confusing for him as it was for us, being that he was new to this place, people and healing from his neutering surgery.
He is such a joy and 99% of the time he is everything I dreamed of in a dog. I really want to make this work. But I also want to live a life where the mailman is safe to walk into the front yard. Where friends can come over and the dog doesn't have to be hidden away for safety. And most of all that children will be safe around him. (of course you must always be vigilant with children and dogs but to this degree is too much for my comfort) . At this point I don't think any kid even an adult is okay to be around him at the house because he seems to perceive everyone as a threat somehow.
If you made it through this long post, thank you. I feel heartbroken at the thought of finding him a different home if that is what it comes to. Maybe that is the solution but I'm desperate to keep him if there is some course of action that could help.
Thank you. So grateful for any advice.
-Mairi
I'm new here and joined because I need some advice and perspective.
Here's the issue. Our 1 year old rescue is starting to bite our dog walker and is generally nervous and fearful of people (children included) other than myself and my husband. At this point she hasn't been able to leash him up but made great progress with playing with him in the back yard over a months time. He would let her pet him and play ball. He had comfortable body language. But something changed in the last few days and now he is uncool with her. Why and what do we do?
Is there a way to train him out of this behavior?
Is this just the dog that he is and I have to accept that he will not change?
Is this a display of how he will act toward children that are new additions to our family?
The things we know:
-1 year old
-Pung-San/Jindo mix
-First owner gave him back to the breeder and the breeder lost track of him
-He was found on the street. Probably on the street for over a month or more during the age of 7-9 months old.
-Initially he was very fearful when he moved in with us but became comfortable within a week. From pacing around and no touching and then getting better by learning play and training with commands. Finally, now he knows his name, can do sit, stay, come (touch).
-We did additional training with a dog trainer for about a month
-He is very independent
-House broken
-super affectionate and cuddly with us
-He is reasonably comfortable with people at a sidewalk cafe (I think because we are with him)
-he is happy for anyone to walk him once you pass off the leash
-His problem behavior seems to revolve around our house exclusively, the back yard. Anywhere that you can assume he has deemed "his turf"
-The dog walker was making progress with him. Playing in the yard, petting, no growling or biting...but then we installed a doggy door. We wonder if he feels like the backyard is now more "His turf" . than is was before? That is the only thing that changed since the biting started with the dog walker.
-plays with mouth on our arms very gently with no pressure though we have deterred this for the last few weeks and will continue to do so even though it seems affectionate.
-From a scale of 1 being the gentlest bite to 10 being one that draws blood, I would say the bites on the dog walker are on a 4-5. I know this because we have video of him doing it and it's what the dog walker felt. Also, his body posture and tail position all show that he is uncomfortable and in a nervous stance so it's clear that these bites are different from his mouthy, playful biting which is always very gentle.
-does NOT bark almost ever unless he feels threatened. I think I have heard him bark 4 times since we have had him
-he growls if threatened or uncomfortable but sometimes in play mode. In this latest instance, he air bit first, then soft bit and when told NO, he growled.
-he occasionally growls at the dog park if he finds a play friend that is a good wrestling parter and it sounds like play sounds rather than warning growling.
-he sometimes get outnumbered at the dog park and become the submissive dog. This can rise to him barring his teeth if he is cornered or pig-piled by dominant dogs. Would you define this as "fear- aggression?"
Other issues in the past:
-In the 3rd week of his life with us he soft nipped at my mom when she was visiting. A toy was involved and we were inside the house.
-a second incident happened in the backyard with a toy too when my mom tried to play with him, throwing a toy his way and he rushed the toy and barked loudly at her. It was confusing because his body posture was "play" (belly on the ground, front legs splayed in front of him and hind legs bent under him.) . But the fact that he barked was alarming. Maybe it was as confusing for him as it was for us, being that he was new to this place, people and healing from his neutering surgery.
He is such a joy and 99% of the time he is everything I dreamed of in a dog. I really want to make this work. But I also want to live a life where the mailman is safe to walk into the front yard. Where friends can come over and the dog doesn't have to be hidden away for safety. And most of all that children will be safe around him. (of course you must always be vigilant with children and dogs but to this degree is too much for my comfort) . At this point I don't think any kid even an adult is okay to be around him at the house because he seems to perceive everyone as a threat somehow.
If you made it through this long post, thank you. I feel heartbroken at the thought of finding him a different home if that is what it comes to. Maybe that is the solution but I'm desperate to keep him if there is some course of action that could help.
Thank you. So grateful for any advice.
-Mairi