Hi everybody,
My husband and I recently adopted a 3 year old Parson Russell Terrier from a local rescue. He's been with us almost 3 weeks, but I am having trouble with his potty schedule.
Because I work from home, Jack spends most of his day following me around, or sleeping by my side while I am on the computer working. He hasn't had an accident in the house in a few days because I am always with him, making sure he doesn't pee or poop somewhere. He pooped in the house once, the first week he was here, and he's peed in the carpet a few times when we weren't paying attention. That has changed since then because I decided to keep an eye on him at all times last week, so we could successfully train him to go potty outside.
My biggest issue is to actually get him to pee or poop in the backyard. He has no problem peeing or pooping when he goes on walks with me, but he has never pooped when walking with my husband. He is also very shy and afraid of men, so I would think it has to do with that. I try to take him on walks twice a day, once in the morning and once in the evening, but I feel like he is holding his pee for too long! We let him sleep in our bed, and he will stay in the same spot all night long and he hasn't had any accidents in our room during the night. I let him out to the backyard first thing in the morning, around 6:30, which means it's been at least 8-9 hours since he last peed, and he just stares at me. I walk to the grass, try to get him to follow me, but he won't pee. It worries me that he is holding it for too long, and I can't be taking him on walks so many times a day. I need him to feel comfortable peeing in the backyard. He likes to sleep a lot, so sometimes it is hard to get him to go to the backyard. Sometimes it's been 3 hours since we woke up, and he still hasn't peed. I know this because he is with me the whole time. That means he's been holding his pee for 12 hours sometimes! I don't know why he has to hold it so much. I am guessing he was taught to only go during his walks at some point in his life...
I also wanna add that he has peed in the backyard, but even if I write the times down, there isn't a set schedule of when he likes to go pee. I feed him at the same time every day, and his water bowl is always out. Today I took him outside first thing in the morning with his leash. I had to force him to the grass and he just tried to get back in the house the whole time. No pee. This was after we went on a walk the night before around 7pm, and he had peed then, so it had been about 12 hrs since that. Some time later, I took him out again and sat in a chair for about 20 min, with him staring at me, until finally he went to the grass and peed, and this was about 14 hours after I last saw him pee! I made sure to praise him a lot, and he was very happy. I really hope this works. I just don't know how many times I need to do this in a day. When I'm working, I can't take 20 minutes every hour to go sit outside with him.
Do you guys recommend anything? My biggest worry is him holding his pee for so long. I can't believe he hasn't gotten an infection. He hasn't had accidents inside yet, but he also won't tell me when he needs to go, so I can't leave him on his own in the house yet, which is why we have a kennel, but he gets very anxious in there if left for a few hours. I also don't want him to wait until his first morning walk to pee after 12 hours. I would also love it if he would pee in the backyard right before we go to bed, so he doesn't hold it for so long during the night.