Please help!
My 14 week old Newfoundland/Bernese Mountain Dog mix is a sweet boy (when he wants to be) but he is driving me crazy! He wanders into his crate by himself, and will even stay in there for extended periods of time (even if I am not in the room) but the second I try to close the gate and crawl into my own bed (or leave the room to go out for very short periods of time, never more than 2 hours) a switch flips and he gets very distressed. He loses control of his bladder/bowels and will jump around throwing himself at the side of the crate. I am very afraid he is going to injure himself physically, and very worried that I am causing undue mental issues! I tried a couple nights sleeping on the ground next to him and he was okay with that, but it killed my back. I also need to be able to leave him in the crate when I leave until he is potty trained. Has anyone had a similar issue or have any advice?
My 14 week old Newfoundland/Bernese Mountain Dog mix is a sweet boy (when he wants to be) but he is driving me crazy! He wanders into his crate by himself, and will even stay in there for extended periods of time (even if I am not in the room) but the second I try to close the gate and crawl into my own bed (or leave the room to go out for very short periods of time, never more than 2 hours) a switch flips and he gets very distressed. He loses control of his bladder/bowels and will jump around throwing himself at the side of the crate. I am very afraid he is going to injure himself physically, and very worried that I am causing undue mental issues! I tried a couple nights sleeping on the ground next to him and he was okay with that, but it killed my back. I also need to be able to leave him in the crate when I leave until he is potty trained. Has anyone had a similar issue or have any advice?