Dog Forum banner

1 - 3 of 3 Posts

·
Registered
Joined
·
12 Posts
Discussion Starter #1
my 4 year old male Shiteze ( mum was a shih tzu dad was a maltese) is very , very attached to me , it has gotten so bad he won't even eat if I don't stay in the room with him -- I recently spent 4 days in hospital for surgery , he would not eat at all for my husband -- how can I help this situation ?
 

·
Super Moderator
Joined
·
376 Posts
There is a great game you can play called the Flitting Game (credit to Emma Judson of The Canine Consultants who developed it).


We pick two adjacent rooms, ideally kitchen and living room.

Set your timer on your phone (silently) for five minutes. Then make multiple trips from one room to the next, fiddle with something in one room, then move on.

As you do this, ignore your dog – as in don’t talk to him or touch him, but keep an eye on him – as he begins to settle … flit again.

Over the course of a few sessions you should find your dog becomes slower to get up, slower to settle, lurks in the hallway or in doorways, starts to look annoyed at you because this is now TEDIOUS… ugh and unrewarding.

It’s important to remember this is not some strict military regime, if you WANT your dog to come with, to talk to him, to fuss, him, fine, outside these sessions invite him along.

The point is that when you do not invite him, it might not be worth his effort to follow you… and when he realises that, you can then occasionally add in a good reason NOT to choose following you..

So step two is, add that reason in – a big juicy bone, a big filled kong, something that’s highly rewarding and a pain in the backside to lift and carry around.

Now repeat the flitting, if he chooses not to follow you, try to stay a little less time in the ‘away’ room, a little more in the ‘home’ room, and build up gradually, second by second.

Do not always give the kong or bone, carry on doing sessions without, and very gradually build up to other rooms and longer durations away.

At any point your dog is free to come and check, if he does that’s fine, don’t say hi or anything but make a mental note that perhaps this was a step too far and to scale back.

The idea is that your dog learns that it is his own choice not to follow and sometimes, that choice is highly reinforcing, sometimes it is just saving him some tedium and effort. He is free to check up if he’s worried, there’s no force or pressure at all.

After this, she has further advice if you need it for leaving your dog home alone.
 
1 - 3 of 3 Posts
Top