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Old 01-12-2015, 01:42 PM
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I think so too! On the one hand I didn't want to pet this doggy cause I felt like I was going to betray my Bruno but then it felt so good to be close to him and I felt like when he looked into my eyes he felt my pain and was trying to make me feel better. Your Betsy looks just as beautiful btw!
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Old 01-16-2015, 01:47 PM
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How are you holding up Christiana? Hope you are feeling a little more positive
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Old 01-17-2015, 03:49 PM
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Hey Judy! Thank you so much for asking after me, these last few days have been a roller coaster of a few ups and many downs. Good thing is I ve managed to not cry at every sentence directed my way. I ve been able to have a proper conversation without tearing up! I even went to the vet yesterday to thank him for being so nice and kind and give him a thank you present...I broke down again just walking through that for but when I got it together I was able to have a good conversation with him. The need to ask for Bruno to forgive me for not giving him as much attention lately as I used to is always there but at least now I feel like he did forgive me n that he can still feel how much I loved/love him. Am I making any sense? Ow n I even told the vet that after the summer (I m expecting my 3rd baby in June) I ll get in touch to start looking for a rescue dog maybe.
Anyway, here's the blog I told you about, it's really just got me to keep my memories fresh but I m always happy to share what a beautiful fur baby I had!

My one any only Bruno
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Old 01-18-2015, 10:31 AM
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The blog is lovely Christiana . What struck a chord with me was when you said you cried more over Bruno than of your miscarriages, I cried more when my Maddy died than when my Mum died, I'm almost embarrassed to admit that, but it's true. I think it's because we invest so much time & love on our dogs & they are with us through good & bad, never questioning whether we've made a right or wrong decision, just accepting us for who we are. Congratulations on the baby, I have 3 children also, all grown up (1 got married last Summer & 2 getting married in the Summer & Autumn of this year) Best wishes. Judy x
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Old 01-18-2015, 01:24 PM
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Thank you congratulations for your kids' marriages, I hope they live a healthy n happy life n give you lots of grand kids! It does feel embarrassing at first to admit my Bruno passing hurt me more than my mcs but it's exactly what you said plus I really did feel him as a true part of my family and with his passing I am grieving sooooo many years of companionship...
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Old 01-21-2015, 09:46 AM
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I am beyond shocked...I went to Bruno's resting place today...someone had ripped out all the plants and taken his body out and left him there. I couldn't breath...my poor poor baby...what kind of monster would do that?? I m shocked at human kind. I dug with my bare hands to put him in n cover him again...I don't know how to egg this image out of my head...it's just beyond cruel
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Old 01-22-2015, 11:37 PM
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I wonder if it was an animal, since he is in the forest? Don't know why an animal would dig up the plants though. I also wouldn't put it past some sick person. Sorry that happened to you.

I did want to say don't second guess yourself about having Bruno euthanized. I have had many dogs in my life, and with a couple I made the mistake of waiting because I didn't want to lose them, and they ended up with so much suffering in the end. You absolutely made the right decision in ending his suffering.
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Oh @christiana! I have only just read this, I'm so very sorry! You were coping quite well I thought & now this! I really don't know what to think.
What have you done with Bruno now? My heart breaks for you, you took his passing so hard & had made his resting place look so beautiful Little consolation I know, but he did not know this was happening, he may be there in body, but not in spirit, that lives on through you
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Old 01-23-2015, 02:43 PM
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Woof thank you so much for your kind words...the more I think of the kind of life he lived in the last month the more I know I did the right thing for him. My guilt still remains with the fact I didn't spend so much time with him during the last months but I guess that's for my Bruno to forgive n for me to live with. It wasn't an animal for sure cause my Bruno was completely out of the hole, like on the side, the sheet was untied but he was still covered and all the trees n plants were thrown around, they hadn't just fallen down. Someone was either curious to see what was buried there or the police wanted to send me a message to F off as burying your pets is illegal n carries a huge fine. As I said the human race never ceases to disappoint me

Judy, thank you hun, I know his soul is in heaven, it just made me so sad to see him there, to touch him again (he slipped out of the open sheet when I tried to move him)...those last days before that I kept thinking of him up in whatever doggy paradise running free again and seeing that scene over there just crashed me. On the day I found him I dug like a mad woman, pregnant belly n all, on all fours, to make the hole deep again and I buried him again but then just covered everything with soil n branches and rocks...took the plants with me...but then I kept thinking about it n I sent my husband to dig even deeper and cover him better just in case. Of course now I keep thinking "what if they do it again and he laying there again" but I can't keep going and burying him again...a) I m pg n after 3 losses n losing Bruno I can't lose this one again and b) even if I go n say he s there again n I bury him again I will never be sure it won't be repeated. So I decided to never go back again..I hope and pray my Bruno's body does rest in peace but the important thing which I know for sure is that his soul is in peace. I might go again in a year or so when even if he was taken out there will be nothing left I guess. As I said I took the plants with me and will be planting them in our garden tomorrow in his memory. This will now be our special place, where his home was, n where he can hear us talking about what a great dog he was n all our lovely memories with him.

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Very wise, you cannot risk your pregnancy. I know it is hard, but you must not think of Bruno as there in the woods now, you must think of him at rest, not in this world, he is happy, he is free of pain & he is watching over you as you did for him in his life. I don't know who or what did this, but as I said, it is just his body, not his soul or spirit, that will be with you forever
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