I'm new to the forum and just looking for some advice and maybe some personal experience. Just some help to get through this...
I have a 12 year old Miniature Poodle that was just diagnosed with Mitral Valve disease about 8 months ago. He had a heart murmur that showed up during an exam prior to a dental and had a complete work up done and showed no signs of the disease being serious. No heart enlargement or anything. So he went through the dental and had some small benign bumps removed and everything was just fine.
More recently, a week before thanksgiving, I noticed that he had a swollen anal gland and made an appointment with the vet. Turns out it was actually a tumor, cancerous, and they did an ultrasound and x-rays. Cancer hasn't spread, lymph nodes aren't enlarged, and calcium levels are normal. All really good signs the cancer hasn't spread. So tumor removal is the go to option and then chemotherapy treatment after that.
The issue is the x-rays showed some minor heart enlargement and they did an echo cardiogram today before he was supposed to have surgery. Well apparently, they had a cardiologist do it and the cardiologist is saying he's at the stage were he should be on meds even though the primary vet said that based on the x-ray it hasn't reached that point yet. Obviously, the echo cardiogram gives a lot more information about what is actually going on in the heart itself so that probably explains the discrepancy there.
So they called and said they could go through with the surgery although there is an increased risk or we could put him on heart meds for a week and see if things improve and then do retesting of the heart and go from there. At this point I am **** scared to go through with the surgery at all. If his heart wasn't enlarged and things didn't progress so quickly within that 8 months I would probably be fine with it but now I'm so lost as to whether or not I'm making the right decision.
So they did a chest x-ray and the cardiologist, anesthesiologist and the surgeon all met up and talked again and the surgeon called and said the cardiologist sees no reason not to just go through with the surgery today and get it done with. So I said ok. And now I'm slowly losing my mind.
So really, I just need emotional support... Maybe some person experiences to help me get through the next 3 hours while I wait for the surgeon to call. I'm just slightly freaking out right now. I just now that if I don't go through with the surgery there's a risk the tumor will get larger... it can cause him to not be able to properly go to the bathroom. Not to mention the cancer could potentially progress to an even worse point. So idk... I just don't know.