I am not a trainer so my experience is my dogs...you may consider this as a regular owner.
With my first dog when I started training I was using correction/fear/pain methods....which I must say it was the easiest way!! It is very easy to get angry of a behavior and yell at the dog or something or do something painful for the dog. I think the way I used these methods worked very well...
BUT I wasn't ok with myself! After yelling at my dog and see her so afraid of my actions I was crying for what I did. Although I was able to correct her behavior with these methods I think (now) I was ruing the relationship!
At first I was trying to deal with it...but I couldn't be so harsh for my dog. I was asking myself "This cannot be the only way to train a dog...if it is I cannot handle with it. How can people do this all the time?" So I started changing my behavior without really knowing about
PR methods...of course I was doing all things wrong at first and my real problem was
THE RIGHT TIMING!
Anyway, I am not really a patient person so I wanted results NOW to be convinced that these methods work. I was really surprised with
PR methods not because of quick results ...that didn't happened...but I saw a huge change in my dog. Liza as you know is a poodle...and very reactive to emotions, she catches all my emotions. With
PR methods she was more calm with me more secure and our
relationship was heading to another level. I didn't had quick results cause she is a dog with no food or toy motivations so that made it really hard to use
PR methods.
But I loved her whole new behavior and how stable the training was and how happy she was. The fact that when she learned something with
PR she was doing it every single time with a happy attitude was my biggest reward!! To see my dog so happy, and so devoted to me and seeing our relationship going to whole new level of understanding...was like heaven for me!!
I think that if people could see how their dogs would be trained with
PR methods they would change their attitude.
And also, I have to say this, I was able to understand the difference because of Liza...if I had my rotties or the Mals I am pretty sure I would still have different opinions about it! IMO starting
PR methods for a new owner without the experience of using these methods before on breeds like Mals, GSDs, Dobies, Rotties etc can be a really hard thing and maybe they finally abandon
PR.
If I could make a point