Hello all.
I'm hoping that one of you might be able to help me figure out how to properly adjust and put on Willow's harness. Willow is now on her third harness and I'm still having a difficult time figuring out how the thing works. She's the first dog I've used a harness for but collars seem to make her choke and so I'm trying the harness thing instead.
I'm using step-in harnesses since she's less than easy going about getting into the thing. Most of the time in-house I have her in a harness and on-leash since it's easier for potty training (while she's -mostly- potty trained, mostly has some variable to it) and to get her where I need her. We take it off at bed-time or when my boyfriend or I can't watch her.
First,

I have a difficult time figuring out which end is the top strap; if there is one. I get the basic part of "legs go in the holes, snap it on top, attach the leash to the clips" but if it'd fit better one way than the other I can't seem to figure out. Fully stretched to their maximum size both ends of it seem the same to me. There does seem to be some circumference built into it but it doesn't add any clarity to the top or bottom. If there is a top strap, is there an easy way to tell which end is which?
Next, I read an article about fitting the harness and while two-fingers seems easy enough a concept, when I adjust the harness that tightly it rubs up in her arm pit areas causing irritation. I'm not sure if that's breed specific due to the longer bodies of basset hounds, or specific to step-in harnesses because of the two-strap idea, but if I tighten the body strap to where it fits snugly then it's super-chaffing her under legs. Yet, if I adjust it to where it's not causing rubbing under the legs, then the body strap (and top part where the two straps come together) is hanging by a lot.
Also the top strap seems like it's always hanging too low. Where I have it now, she can reach down with her mouth and grab and fight the thing...yet...if I raise it or tighten it, then it's so high on the chest/collar area that it's choking her. *sigh*. The end result of trying to fit the thing so it's not rubbing her and not choking her is that it's lose to where it seems like it's going to fall off.
Any help on how to get this thing to work would be much appreciated. I'm confident the one I got was the right size since she had clearly outgrown her other one and this was the next size up, but I can't seem to ever get any of the three she's had to quite fit right.