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Old 08-25-2010, 06:08 PM
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A trainer friend of mine carries an umbrella and if another dog approaches her she opens it up in front of her and that stops the other dog from coming near.

If you try this technique, its good to get your own dogs used to it first, from their angle next to you, so they are not startled.

I don't know what your relations are (were?) like with your neighbors... maybe it would be worth it to try to repair things a little? I mean, even though it is their fault for having a dog off lead, sometimes a bit of outreach can still sooth nerves, before the animosity grows. I don't know what people in the UK might do... but here in the US, a plate of cookies, or some home grown veggies etc, along with a gentle note of friendship, might work wonders. Anything to break the cycle of growing distrust and start a conversation of connection.
I may be off base.... its just an idea...
I think that is wonderful sound advice....well said Tess!

Sometimes extending an olive branch can save you a lot of frustration in the long run.......and when there are cookies at the end of that branch, even better!

Having a large Mastiff myself, I make sure to check and recheck my dogs collar, (making adjustments as needed) so I don't have to worry about her 'slipping out' at the most inopportune time.

Athough your BM is a love and you don't understand why she did this, I'd still be very cautious and attentive. Have you considered having her wear a muzzle to avoid potential problems in the future, until you can figure out what brought the attack on, and how to remedy it?
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I mean, even though it is their fault for having a dog off lead, sometimes a bit of outreach can still sooth nerves, before the animosity grows. I don't know what people in the UK might do... but here in the US, a plate of cookies, or some home grown veggies etc, along with a gentle note of friendship, might work wonders. Anything to break the cycle of growing distrust and start a conversation of connection.
Remind me to send one of my dogs at yours off leash....I love cookies.




in seriousness, Iam in the middle. I do let my dogs off leash, but only in areas that its normal to do so. I wouldn't let them off lead where I expected a car or another dog owner to walk by...then again, mine don't run off and accost other dogs.
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and that time when they decide not to come when called... and there happens to be a car coming... yeah... sorry... i just cant do that...
I live in the country..... if I time my walks right there will be few or no cars at all. My dog and I go to the side of the road and she sits down and we wait till the car passes. I don't think my dog is stupid enough to run out in front of a car. I'm not saying the dog should've been off leash. Obviously he/she SHOULDN'T have been. What I am saying is that I am not totally against letting your dog off leash.
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Sometimes extending an olive branch can save you a lot of frustration in the long run.......and when there are cookies at the end of that branch, even better!
I have come to believe, in my fifth decade of life, that promoting harmony is more valuable the being proven right.

Took me some time to figure that out! LOL!

I think somehow... raising dogs helped me to understand what is truly important. Most things worth knowing, one can learn from a dog.
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I have come to believe, in my fifth decade of life, that promoting harmony is more valuable the being proven right.

Took me some time to figure that out! LOL!

I think somehow... raising dogs helped me to understand what is truly important. Most things worth knowing, one can learn from a dog.
I do believe you are "right"....lol
I've had many an epiphany, brought about by the uncomplicated logic of dogs.
The lessons you can learn from children and animals are often the simplest but most profound and in my 4th decade of life, I've discovered there are few things more profound than cookies and harmony
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